Cut the tie that bind us

On Friday night, I was talking to a friend about different things including her recent separation and divorce. We were discussing how one can attract positive and negative energies from others thru the thought process. We act as magnets giving and receiving the thoughts from others when we regularly bring them about in conversation, complaints, or fond memories.

For example, we both know a woman (lets call her Maria) whose sister is envious of her every which way. Maria has to maintain a balance between been friendly toward her sister and not trusting her completely. Maria is a very spiritual person and is constantly sending her sister love and forgiveness with her thoughts. At the same time, Maria complaints about her sister and what a mean rotten SOB she is. The good thoughts become useless if one continually speaks about the other person's misdeeds, experiences, actions, or merely the past. Moreover, if our intention is to eradicate this person from our lives and to cut the tie that bind us once and for all, the first step is to cease talking or thinking about that person; thus severing the imaginary string of energy that can link both of us.

My friend confessed that she was guilty of the same attitude with her ex-husband. She would express her resentment to her friends at all times perhaps looking for support and reassurance that the other party was the one at fault. In doing so, whatever energy she intended to use to forget him was ineffective. Her words and thoughts continued to attract him into her life in an indirect manner, but still part of her nonetheless.

So what's the secret? Start by cutting off any thoughts or words about the other person and you will begin to feel the energy dissipate. More importantly, you will regain control of your life and freedom.